My name is
Christian, lead developer (resume), writer, photographer, runner,
gun enthusiast, libertarian (voluntaryist),
This is also my wife Honey Robins' site.
Life with baby (10 weeks)News, Baby ·Tuesday November 21, 2017 @ 22:59 EST (link)
A few notes about living with David Geoffrey—not to vent or complain.
First, since I'm working full time (and my company gives no paid paternity leave whatsoever—I wish I were still at Microsoft in that regard), I still sleep about eight hours a night; since Honey doesn't work and since she has the food, she deals with the two-hourly feedings, which have gotten somewhat better now. David G. "technically" slept through the night, meaning five hours, for the first time yesterday.
For a little while Honey and baby were sleeping in one of the bedrooms downstairs so I could get enough sleep to go to work, but we moved upstairs when the Penners came, and stayed there. We have a Graco Pack'n'Play next to the bed, but he mostly sleeps in the middle of the bed cradled by Honey. I sometimes get woken up to hold him in spit-up and other emergencies.
He does not like to lie down or sit by himself, very much preferring to be held, and that standing at the shoulder rather than in the more traditional "baby" sling carry. When he gets hungry or really needs a change he'll escalate his cries to a continually repeated "mah" (apparently he breathes through his nose, so he hardly needs to stop for breath, and he takes full advantage of that). He will get sleepy after eating, but will pop open wide eyes if disturbed. Instead, he prefers a walk around and singing (he likes hymns) and "shhh"ing has some effect too.
Like, 10 diapers a day. Did not expect that many. Why aren't there diaper-changing robots yet?
At 10 weeks, he is not very much into objects yet, at all (normal, but surprised me), but he's still figuring out his arms and hands are his and how they're connected. He will hold fingers and can sometimes be convinced to hold his hand around the few toys (like plastic keys) we got for him, but isn't very interested and will drop them quickly. He can hold his head up most of the time and can sit against a support, although he likes to dive to the side. He likes to lean to the side when held, too. When held by midsection, or, lately, hands alone, he can stand up ("The Standing Baby!").
We try to give him some "tummy time" on his front on a blanket during the day to help him experiment with moving and perhaps eventually flipping himself to his back (when he can do that, he can sleep on his front) (he did it once very early, and then hasn't since).
He's had a couple rounds of vaccinations, a few of which made him cry briefly but he was fine soon after (mommy wasn't). He's got a bit of a cold now. He had good birth weight but lost a lot soon after, but now is doing great at 12.6 pounds, and probably a little over 24 inches by now.
I've taken a lot of photos of him, which have been posted here and are automatically synced to my Raspberry Pi digital photo frame at work—a popular Christmas gift suggestion for both sets of parents (need to set up easy touch-based wi-fi configuration, since mine is wired). The new Nikon I ordered is finally arriving tomorrow, so expect videos soon too.
David Geoffrey: the many facesBaby ·Thursday November 16, 2017 @ 19:34 EST (link)
The many faces of David Geoffrey! Smiling more frequently now….
David Geoffrey: two monthsBaby ·Saturday November 4, 2017 @ 22:09 EDT (link)
Technically two months on Monday; more pictures of our Wee Tiny!
A wizard hat for David GeoffreyNews, Technical, Baby ·Sunday October 29, 2017 @ 12:02 EDT (link)
David Geoffrey is about ten pounds now, and at or over two feet tall. Lately he's learning that those arms and hands attached to him are his, and it's making him a little grumpy. Today he went on some errands with us (mostly involving diapers/nappies) and he was mostly happy. He has another checkup Monday, including some vaccinations which we hope aren't too hard on him.
Facing a great rent in my pajama bottoms and guests arriving, I decided to look into automated sewing equipment, as hand-sewing had proven both tedious and ineffective. At first I tried one of those portable battery-operated machines that look a bit like an upside-down stapler, but it was all kinds of terrible (poor build quality, dropped stitches) and I returned it (and I must say the Amazon return experience was extremely painless) in favor of a Singer 4423 Heavy Duty regular machine, which got good reviews and was presently discounted to just over $100. That its dials were mechanical and it had no LCD readouts was a plus to me—I know what can go wrong with embedded peripherals, and would rather keep it simple for my first machine.
So, I mended the tears, and hemmed the pants too since they were large and I was always tripping over them. But that's not all….
Looking for sewing tutorials I found Zab's channel, which, as well as her intro series, had a video on making a Gandalf hat. How could I not make wizard hats for my son and me?
(Me: I also found this video for making a Jedi robe. If I can manage the Gandalf hat, it should be easy!
Honey: Somehow I thought you'd see it that way [instead of starting easy and working up].)
So, for the first time I walked into a fabric store voluntarily, and picked up some felt and lining fabric—and online I added a set of Gingher fabric shears, tape measure, interfacing, and other necessary sundries. Fortunately I had just brought some boxes back from my parents, and as well as Transformers they had my (English) mother's sewing bag, containing useful things like pins, needles, and even some usable thread (unfortunately the first section of the tape measure had faded from use).
The first hat I made was too small. I learned from that, and did better on the second, the construction of which is shown above (the smaller hat is the one sitting on the sewing machine). I had made insufficient allowances for the way is brim is tilted (to give it concavity) and the seams. It's a nice decoration. I also hadn't properly gathered (no pun intended) the idea of pinning and sewing the two curves together, and perhaps tried to flatten them too much, and had to cut some fabric later.
I laid out my sewing equipment on the new kitchen table (my parents' old dining room table, which I rescued from being sold to strangers on Kijiji, which is how Canadians say Craigslist), and there's a TV inset in the wall connected to a computer (a respectible i7 with 8Gb RAM as it turns out—left by former owners) accessible via the hall closet behind. We'd never had occasion to use it yet, but having the video right there while making the hat was as useful as I expected it to be; I installed Arch Linux (over Windows 10), LXDE, and Chromium on it and we added Algaria to our internal network (when I installed cat6 soon after we bought the house, we included a connection to the closet).
So, there's the finished hat on the unfinished wizard; I didn't get to mine in time for Hallowe'en (but will still make one), and I expect by the time it rolls around next year it won't fit any more and I'll need to make another one. I am very happy with how it turned out. And now that I can sew, Honey expects me to hem all her pants, but I'm more the "teach a man to fish" type. If I recall correctly, my grandfather, (H.) Geoff Cater, was also competent with a sewing machine.
David Geoffrey: the cuteness continuesBaby ·Monday October 23, 2017 @ 18:27 EDT (link)
Rebecca (Penner family) visitsNews ·Sunday October 22, 2017 @ 12:00 EDT (link)
My sister Rebecca, her husband Theo, and their two boys, Zico (6) and Tiago (4) came to visit us for a few days, arriving Friday evening and leaving Sunday morning after breakfast. It's the first time they've been here (maybe their first time in Indiana?), and Rebecca is the first sibling to visit us out here.
I admit I had some concerns about entertaining the boys, but as can be seen we found plenty to do. Theo and I built a fire in the pit out back—the boys helped gather wood—and we all roasted marshmallows. They also had a lot of fun playing with my old transformers, which were out from some boxes we'd brought back from my parents' place (they are selling). I had expected they'd be curious about them as historical toys, but apparently some toys are timeless.
After breakfast Saturday morning, Honey and Rebecca went shopping (picked up at least an Instacrate, which are great). Theo and I went back to the range and shot my RRA AR-15 rifle and a Springfield XDM pistol (the boys came back, but were a bit young to shoot). Everyone helped load magazines. Rebecca shot the AR-15 the next day.
We also took some rides on the riding mower, with the boys steering but not quite able to reach the pedals; down the drive almost to the road, and around the back yard a little. I also hooked up the wagon so both could ride (it's a small tractor, so one on a lap and the other on the wagon, then switch). They also enjoyed playing in the playhouse out back, and playing tag.
We found that GameCube controllers work on Mario Kart Wii (and one source compared and found them the best for karts and second for bikes), so we were able to race for a while and Honey showed us all how it's done.
We hope y'all can make it back sometime, and other siblings can visit too. Mother and father are expected to come by in November.
David Geoffrey: a month oldBaby ·Wednesday October 11, 2017 @ 22:01 EDT (link)
David Geoffrey: week twoBaby ·Saturday September 23, 2017 @ 19:16 EDT (link)
A couple with high-ISO and natural light (high for the D300, which maxes out at 3200—the D850 goes 8x higher to 25600), which works well, as does bouncing the flash (even better than a diffuser) for smoother skin tones. His first bath, in his Batman shirt, and a lot of resting comfortably.
GT South's with Honey's mother and sister Emily:
Few more of wee David:
David Geoffrey: the first weekBaby ·Friday September 15, 2017 @ 23:08 EDT (link)
David Geoffrey RobinsNews, Baby ·Wednesday September 6, 2017 @ 14:27 EDT (link)
Born September 6, 2017 at 1427 (originally scheduled for the 13th); 8 lbs. 7 oz., 22 in.
Mother and baby doing fine. Honey's mother and sister came to stay with us to help take care of the baby in the first few weeks. Since the baby was early, they just made it after the (C-section) surgery and were waiting in our room (which was very nice) after we got out. All tests fine so far, including a hearing test.
<Previous 10 entries>